Feelings Aren't the Boss song cover
Children's Song Lyrics

Feelings Aren't the Boss

A truth-filled children's song reminding young hearts that feelings are real, but they do not get the final say. Jesus leads, and God's Word stays steady.

Artist: Joe Soares
Category: Children's Christian Songs
Theme: Feelings, truth, self-control, and following Jesus
About This Song

Feelings can talk. Jesus leads.

Children feel deeply. They can wake up heavy, become afraid without knowing why, feel angry before they understand what happened, or be pulled around by thoughts that seem loud in the moment.

This song helps children see that feelings should not be ignored, but they also should not become the boss. The heart needs the truth of God's Word, the help of prayer, and the steady leadership of Jesus Christ.

The goal is simple: help young hearts learn to pause, pray, listen to the Lord, and follow truth instead of every feeling that passes through the mind.

Scripture Foundation

God's Word is steadier than feelings.

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? Jeremiah 17:9 KJV
This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. Galatians 5:16 KJV
Lyrics

Feelings Aren't the Boss

Verse 1 Woke up with a heavy feeling Don't know where it came from One minute I'm fine, next minute Everything feels wrong My heart's going fast for no reason Thoughts running circles in my head Every feeling's talkin' loud Telling me what I should be instead Pre-Chorus But I remember what You told me When my mind starts spinning around Feelings can talk all day But they don't get to run this town Chorus My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get to lead my way I don't have to follow every thought That shows up in my brain My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get the final say I listen close, then I choose Jesus, I'm gonna follow You Hook Feelings talk — Jesus leads Feelings talk — Jesus leads Feelings talk — Jesus leads That's the truth I'm gonna believe Verse 2 Some days I feel really angry Some days I feel afraid Some days I don't even know Why my smile just fades They tell me "trust your feelings" "Just go with what feels right" But You say truth don't change Even on my hardest nights Pre-Chorus You remind me I don't have to panic I don't have to choose in a rush I can stop and pray and listen To the voice I know I trust Chorus My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get to lead my way I don't have to follow every thought That shows up in my brain My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get the final say I listen close, then I choose Jesus, I'm gonna follow You Bridge When my heart feels loud And my mind feels torn Your Word stays steady Like it's always been I don't deny what I'm feeling I just don't let it decide I give it all to Jesus And let Him lead my life Final Chorus My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get to lead my way I don't have to follow every thought That shows up in my brain My feelings aren't the boss of me They don't get the final say I listen close, then I choose Jesus, I'm gonna follow You Outro Feelings talk — Jesus leads Feelings talk — Jesus leads Yeah... Jesus leads
Song Note: Feelings Aren't the Boss teaches children that emotions are real, but God's truth is a better guide than changing feelings. The song encourages children to bring their emotions to Jesus and follow His Word.